From a previous post to the Jack’s Winning Words blog comes this advice –
“When I was young my teachers were the old. Now when I am old my teachers are the young.” (Robert Frost) Maybe the point of Frost’s quote is that we can learn from people of any age…as long as we’re willing to keep learning. 😉 Jack
Jack was a life-long learner and I try to be, too. Learning come from being interested in things and people – how things work and what makes people tick. Learning comes out of questions – How did that happen? What makes it run? Why did you say that? What do you think of this? Just keep learning.
The enemy of learning is not ignorance; rather, it is apathy. Not caring or being interested in what is going on around you and in the people that you encounter may well lead to ignorance, but it almost surely leads to isolation and loneliness. Apathy is also a slippery slope leading to depression in some. Just keep learning.
In journalism one is taught to look for the Who, What, When, Where and How of the story that one might be covering. The more of those answers that you can get the better your story will be. Those are good questions to keep in mind for our daily lives. The more that we can explore those questions and get answers the richer our lives will be, especially as we apply them to the people that we meet. Just keep learning.
Challenge yourself to be better able to later answer those questions about the people you encounter during the day. You will find yourself asking more questions and listening more intently to the answers that they give you. Just imagine that you will be challenged to write a story about that person later. What do you know about them? How are you going to find out something interesting about them to write about? Just keep learning.
Another fun way to look at life’s encounters with others is to challenge yourself to learn something new from them. Just remember that they have seen, and still see, life from a different perspective than yours. Rather than rush to judgement on someone who has a different ethnic, political, or religious view on life; why not accept the challenge of understand what their view is and seeing if there is anything to be learned from that perspective. Just keep learning.
If you accept some of these challenges to yourself, you will keep on learning. Your life will not be boring because you will always be discovering something new about others and about yourself. Eventually you will put the bits and pieces of knowledge that you have collected over the years together and they will coalesce into what we call wisdom. For most it takes quite a long time to collect enough new bits of knowledge to allow for wisdom to develop. That is why most of the wide people that we know are older. Just keep learning.
So, start out today and every day with the challenge of learning new things and meeting new people. Just keep learning.




Posted by Norm Werner 



that. If only I had said something. If only I had introduced myself. If only…
So summon up the courage to try this week. Finally say hello to that person that you cross paths with every day and have always wanted to meet. Try somewhere new for lunch, maybe that little place that you have always wondered about trying. Take advantage of that free trial offer at the gym to see how working out might be for you. Accept that invitation that you’ve always turned down to join in an activity at your church or in your community. The key is doing it and not just thinking about it.
open mind (open to learning new things), we can continue to learn and add to our bank account of knowledge until our last day. One can, and must, keep a sense of wonder about the things and people around us to keep learning. How do things work? Why do things happen? Who is that person and what can I learn from them? We must keep inquiring, questioning and wondering all of our lives in order to keep the bank accounts open. “There are few things more pathetic than those who have lost their curiosity and sense of adventure, and who no longer care to learn.” ― Gordon B. Hinckley.
that they are being taught; however, many things that are taught in school are taught within the context of a process and understanding the process is as important as understanding any single fact or equation. Most of the so-called STEM subjects fall into that category. Some subjects are lumped into a broad category called “enabling knowledge”, which is meant to establish a context in which the world can be better understood. Those topics may include social studies and history. Finally, a few may be classified as “enrichment” topics, such as art classes; which are meant to broaden or enhance our perceptions of the world around us. In truth, epecially once we get out of school, George Whitman put it well when he said – “All the world is my school and all humanity is my teacher.”
of one’s mind, rather than the money accumulated in regular banks. In the financial world there is the concept of compounding (interest earning interest) and in the bank of one’s mind there is the concept of wisdom. The interest that one earns on all of that accumulated knowledge is called wisdom. Instead of just drawing on what you learned as a student in school, heed this advice from Albert Einstein – “Wisdom is not a product of schooling but of the lifelong attempt to acquire it.”
So, keep your mind open to learning, to acquiring new knowledge and new ideas and view them as deposits into your mind’s knowledge bank. It is a wise man indeed who never stops making deposits in his bank of knowledge. Henry Ford hit upon another reason to keep learning – “Anyone who stops learning is old, whether at twenty or eighty. Anyone who keeps learning stays young.”
resistance is the key to building muscle (to increased strength and growth). In life, too, the twisting path or detours offer the type of resistance that allows us to get stronger and grow as human beings. We learn little from the straight and easy paths in life.
Indeed it is the unexpected nature of those detours that prevent us from planning ahead for them. We can, however, be better prepared mentally for dealing with them. Perhaps it will take us a few moments of reflection to calm down and accept that life has taken yet another turn and that we must do something other than panic about it. In many cases the bend that life may have just taken you around can be very enjoyable. Some of the best times in my life were not the result of planning, but rather just happenstance – another detour that life took me on. I’m sure that all of us can recall some unplanned, but enjoyable event or place that we visited. Those were some of life’s little detours.
that you try will result in success. The secret is figuring out how to use this resistance that life throws at you to grow and get stronger and the key to that is keeping a positive attitude about life. You can start on that by taking to heart this little saying by Joel Osten –
“I’ve come to realize that the detours can be the best part of the journey.” ( Jack Freed)
different from where you were looking and they all carry different information and different points of view. Haven’t you ever wondered how things look from their perspective? If you encounter people with backgrounds that vary greatly from yours, maybe an immigrant or a person from a different ethnic group, haven’t you ever been curious how much different their take is on things than yours? Did you ever ask? What did you learn from that? It’s OK to start from the position of “I don’t understand you”; however, it is wrong to jump from there to “and I don’t like you, or I’m afraid of you, because of that.” Why not try to use the experience to learn something about that person. You may be surprised by who they really are.
relationship with a friend or loved one. Not only can you learn problem solving techniques from each incident, but you also learn something new about yourself and about the other parties involved (and adversities almost always involve other parties). Try to make each encounter with adversity a learning experience.
point of view has merit; to them it is the perspective from which they are viewing the situation and the basis upon which they are making their decisions. Ask yourself if you
learning experiences a part of your knowledge base and a step towards turning knowledge into wisdom. What did you see today? Who did you meet today? What did you learn today? What did you get out of today?



