I get graphics everyday from my real estate company – Real Estate One. Most are just supporting pitches to sell your home now or let me find you a new home. This one has a more general meaning…
It is all too easy to spend time reflecting on the past or dreaming about the future. Time spent on the past is usually time spent in regret. Regret for things that you’ve done or maybe things that you’ve left undone. We have a little prayer at the beginning of each service at my church where we ask for forgiveness for those things done and those left undone. I’ve opined here a few times that it is the things left undone that most often dominates my request for forgiveness.
Oft times when we think about future events, we try to fool ourselves into thinking that we are planning for them. In reality, we most often spend a lot of time letting our imaginations run through a gauntlet of bad outcomes, no matter how improbable they may be. The fear of failure conjures up all sorts of negative outcomes, no matter how unlikely.
Both of these scenarios – spending time thinking about the past or the future – cause us to lose track of the importance of the current moment. We could be doing, instead of just thinking. We could be accomplishing, instead of just planning or regretting.
Right now, in the current moment, is the most important moment of your life. It is the only moment that you are fully in charge of and the only one in which what you do can make a difference. It is that moment when what you do or leave undone will have impact that you will latter feel good about or have regrets about.
Seize this moment. Be consciously aware of the moment and your role in it. Be more aware of the decisions that the moment requires of you. Free yourself from the shackles of fears and prejudices and make your decisions based only on the needs and facts of the moment. You will never get another chance at this moment. Make it count.
Live in the moment.