From today’s post to the Jack’s Winning Words blog comes this –
“There is only one happiness in life: to love and to be loved.” (George Sand)
Jack went on to reveal that George Sand was actually a 19th century female poet who was a romantic rebel (she also smoked cigars and wore trousers). She and Frédéric Chopin were once “an item.”
“George” probably didn’t write those words for a Valentine’s Day card; although they have become quite popular as a Valentine’s Day quote. Valentine’s Day, like so many other holidays started out as a religious celebration of St. Valentine and had devolved into a commercialized, secular day. Of course, certain merchants love that and it does provide a small boost to the economy, sort of like St. Patrick‘s Day, which is coming up in mid-March. I guess we need things like that to break up the winter doldrums.
Back to today’s saying. Giving and receiving love applies not only to human relationships, but to those between humans and their pets. That’s why the unconditional love that a dog can show its owner is so powerful and satisfying. Maybe not so much (or at least not quite as unconditional) for cats.
For those in a loving relationship with a partner, the sense of happiness comes also with a sense of comfort and safety and commitment. One finds contentment in the arms of a loved one and a sense that the world around you melts away into the background. There is an overwhelming sense of relief and satisfaction in finding that special person with whom you are able to open your soul and allow yourself to become vulnerable – to share unconditional love. Perhaps that is why relationships that sour are so painful, that sense of betrayal of the thrust that you placed in that person.
For those still searching for that one true love of your life, keep the faith. Love is out there somewhere for you. You must be willing to take a few chances, suffer a few bruises and put yourself out there a few times in order to find your soulmate. In our youth, we often mistake passion for love, only to be disappointed once the passion cools. As we grew a bit older and a lot wiser, we begin to understand how to see the true beauty in people and how to identify true love.
So, live, laugh and love this Valentine’s Day. Exchange cards and candy and chocolate covered strawberries. Embrace that special person in your life and be happy that he/she is yours and you are theirs. Love and be loved. Feel the happiness that a shared unconditional love can bring.
Happy Valentine’s Day!