Nobody said it would be easy…

September 19, 2023

In yesterday’s post I talked about viewing life as a journey and advised that you embrace and enjoy that journey. I also mentioned that the journey might take you through some dark places. Those are the difficult roads that you might hit. I did not say yesterday that making the journey would be easy. There will be difficult stretches along the way.

That might involve setbacks to the progress that you’ve made or perhaps the loss of someone who was making the journey with you or at least supporting you on the journey. Sometimes it may feel like you’ve hit a pothole in the road – a sharp but very temporary jolt. Other times the route ahead might feel precarious, as if you are creeping along on a mountainside trail with a scary drop if you make a mistake. Perhaps it just feels like the road ahead stretches out to the horizon with no destination in sight.

Perhaps the biggest key to navigating difficult roads is letting go of the illusion that you can somehow control the future. At best, what you control is your reaction to the future. Only God can control the future. And speaking of God; a good first step in reacting to difficult turns that your journey might take is putting your trust into God. I use the little prayer, “Not my will but thy will be done.” That simple little prayer takes the burden off me, allows me to forgive myself, if I am the cause of the problem that I am facing, and frees me to move forward.

Overcoming adversity also requires patience and perseverance, two traits which seem to be in short supply these days. In our “immediate gratification” world having to patiently wait and being persistent in our efforts is frustrating. Many would rather just abandon an effort rather than seeing it through to the conclusion. It is possible to go through life achieving just those small things that you can get done quickly; however, those who take that route never achieve greatness and live a life that is much less satisfying.

So, do not be afraid of the difficult road. Be patient. Persist. Trust God to take care of the future. At the end pf that difficult stretch of road lies the beautiful destination of satisfaction.


“If you fell down yesterday, stand up today.” ― H.G. Wells

June 11, 2015

“Ambition is the path to success.  Persistence is the vehicle you arrive in.”  (Bill Bradley) – as seen on the Jack’s Winning Words blog.

I would add to Bradley’s quote that “perseverance is the fuel that keeps the vehicle going”.  There are a number of quotes that have to do with people quitting when they are in reality just around the next corner from reaching their goal. They had the ambition and they may have been persistent in pursuing their goal for some time, but eventually theystruggle could not persevere through the setbacks that they hit along the way.

On the Dictionary.com site the word to persevere means to persist in anything undertaken; maintain a purpose in spite of difficulty, obstacles, or discouragement; continue steadfastly. In my real estate business life I tell would-be sellers that they need to mind their P’s and C’s. The three P’s of real estate are Price, Persistence and Perseverance. While the Realtor will provide useful information and market guidance to help the seller set the price, it is really up to them. After that they must be persistent in their efforts to keep the house ready to show at any time and they must persevere through what could be a long process, with potentially many disappointments when offers don’t materialized or work out.

The three C’s that are also their responsibility are Condition, Clutter and Cleanliness. They need to take care of the things that could detract from the marketability of the house, whether that be routine maintenance items or something bigger. Of course getting rid of clutter and keeping the place clean for a showing comes with the territory, too. I suspect that there is value in applying those same guidelines to life in general, by keeping yourself maintained (in good health and condition and looking presentable) and decluttering your life. I’m just going to assume that you keep yourself clean (literally and figuratively).

reaching goalAs I revisit the first sentence in today’s little saying I think that ambition is what turns dreams into goals and plans to achieve those goals. We all have dreams about getting somewhere in life or achieving some goals in life, but not everyone takes the next steps with those dreams and creates plans to achieve them (ambitions). Those plans are the road maps (the paths if you will) for how to get there (what you have to do) to achieve those dreams. There may be stops or turns along the way and those may be intermediate goals. Dreams that are never turned into ambitions are sometimes called pipe dreams.

Some people advise us to pray for what we want in life. I would advise that you pray for the perseverance needed to get what you want in life. Pray for the strength to work through adversity, to endure the pains and burdens that you may have to bear and for the belief in yourself that you will achieve your goals if you just work long enough and hard enough towards them. Instead of saying “Lord, do this for me”, pray instead, “Lord, give me the strength, the courage, the faith and the perseverance to do this myself.” Then, as you are on the journey towards achieving your ambitions; when your persistent efforts exhaust you; you’ll know who to turn to in order to refill your tank (to persevere).

Here’s a great little saying by Mary Anne Radmacher –  “Courage doesn’t always roar. Sometimes courage is the little voice at the end of the day that says I’ll try again tomorrow.”  That is the courage to persevere. Have a great today and tomorrow.